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Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Sat Sep 07, 2024 9:28 pm

Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 5:43 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:45 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:30 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 12:52 pm
Guest wrote: Wed Aug 28, 2024 4:36 pm the issue with spring/summer hockey is that it's too much and has ruined the game for kids who would like to play other sports, hang out at the beach or just take a break from hockey. It's hard to do any of those things AND keep up with the kids who did that in the fall...if you didnt. there needs to be a balance. I'm sure coaches/orgs love it because it's $$ plus maybe they get to recruit for their winter teams for when it actually matters.

Youth sports have become way too intense and i say this as someone who's kid has been suckered into spring/summer hockey.
Yeah, this is a fair comment, but unfortunately its never going to stop.

Its only going to get crazier and crazier.

My kid played a different sport in Spring and i've told this story before on this forum, but the quick version is he was usually top3 kid on the ice last fall. This early summer, when compared to the same kids, but they played spring and summer, he looks slow and not as skilled any more.

He has gone from top kid on the team to middle of the pack, really quickly. Will it level out through the fall? Probably. But it did make me rethink keeping him in another sport through the spring/summer next year. I still feel like multisport is the way to go, but, it sure as shit feels like we messed up.
You’re doing it right, play the long game. A lot of these other kids will burn out and have overuse injuries by age 14. Multi sports are the way to go, keep your kid on the ice weekly but don’t get caught up.
I don't disagree. But, lets put it this way.
The kids playing AAA hockey in U10 - U15 are going to be the kids who play year 'round - unless of course your kid is a generational talent (my kid is not)
Come U16 - he isn't going to magically make a AAA team because a bunch of kids get injuries or quit all together.


If your kid needs spring amd summer ho key to make it, he's not that good. My never played a single game of hockey after the winter season. I also never took him to AAA tryouts because I knew the coaches all put winning #1, and thought they were in Jr.A already. I didn't need thet aggravation for my family. My son played elite soccer, football and beach volleyball. He did some development in the spring, shot pucks on bis own time at home, and worked out in our home gym a ton.

Played U15AAA on his first try, then U16AAA and now Jr.A. He's an athlete and puts in all of the work on his own.

Those who need to specialize aren't good enough and will fizzle out.
It’s been proven time and time again. Be a multi sport athlete, develop athleticism and it will come. Putting your kid on the ice all year long only deprives them of their childhood and exploration. Rob Gronkowski played hockey as his main sport growing up.

Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Sat Sep 07, 2024 9:27 pm

Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 5:43 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:45 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:30 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 12:52 pm
Guest wrote: Wed Aug 28, 2024 4:36 pm the issue with spring/summer hockey is that it's too much and has ruined the game for kids who would like to play other sports, hang out at the beach or just take a break from hockey. It's hard to do any of those things AND keep up with the kids who did that in the fall...if you didnt. there needs to be a balance. I'm sure coaches/orgs love it because it's $$ plus maybe they get to recruit for their winter teams for when it actually matters.

Youth sports have become way too intense and i say this as someone who's kid has been suckered into spring/summer hockey.
Yeah, this is a fair comment, but unfortunately its never going to stop.

Its only going to get crazier and crazier.

My kid played a different sport in Spring and i've told this story before on this forum, but the quick version is he was usually top3 kid on the ice last fall. This early summer, when compared to the same kids, but they played spring and summer, he looks slow and not as skilled any more.

He has gone from top kid on the team to middle of the pack, really quickly. Will it level out through the fall? Probably. But it did make me rethink keeping him in another sport through the spring/summer next year. I still feel like multisport is the way to go, but, it sure as shit feels like we messed up.
You’re doing it right, play the long game. A lot of these other kids will burn out and have overuse injuries by age 14. Multi sports are the way to go, keep your kid on the ice weekly but don’t get caught up.
I don't disagree. But, lets put it this way.
The kids playing AAA hockey in U10 - U15 are going to be the kids who play year 'round - unless of course your kid is a generational talent (my kid is not)
Come U16 - he isn't going to magically make a AAA team because a bunch of kids get injuries or quit all together.


If your kid needs spring amd summer ho key to make it, he's not that good. My never played a single game of hockey after the winter season. I also never took him to AAA tryouts because I knew the coaches all put winning #1, and thought they were in Jr.A already. I didn't need thet aggravation for my family. My son played elite soccer, football and beach volleyball. He did some development in the spring, shot pucks on bis own time at home, and worked out in our home gym a ton.

Played U15AAA on his first try, then U16AAA and now Jr.A. He's an athlete and puts in all of the work on his own.

Those who need to specialize aren't good enough and will fizzle out.
It’s been proven time and time again. Be a multi sport athlete, develop athleticism and it will come. Putting your kid on the ice all year long only deprives them of their childhood

Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Thu Aug 29, 2024 5:43 pm

Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:45 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:30 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 12:52 pm
Guest wrote: Wed Aug 28, 2024 4:36 pm the issue with spring/summer hockey is that it's too much and has ruined the game for kids who would like to play other sports, hang out at the beach or just take a break from hockey. It's hard to do any of those things AND keep up with the kids who did that in the fall...if you didnt. there needs to be a balance. I'm sure coaches/orgs love it because it's $$ plus maybe they get to recruit for their winter teams for when it actually matters.

Youth sports have become way too intense and i say this as someone who's kid has been suckered into spring/summer hockey.
Yeah, this is a fair comment, but unfortunately its never going to stop.

Its only going to get crazier and crazier.

My kid played a different sport in Spring and i've told this story before on this forum, but the quick version is he was usually top3 kid on the ice last fall. This early summer, when compared to the same kids, but they played spring and summer, he looks slow and not as skilled any more.

He has gone from top kid on the team to middle of the pack, really quickly. Will it level out through the fall? Probably. But it did make me rethink keeping him in another sport through the spring/summer next year. I still feel like multisport is the way to go, but, it sure as shit feels like we messed up.
You’re doing it right, play the long game. A lot of these other kids will burn out and have overuse injuries by age 14. Multi sports are the way to go, keep your kid on the ice weekly but don’t get caught up.
I don't disagree. But, lets put it this way.
The kids playing AAA hockey in U10 - U15 are going to be the kids who play year 'round - unless of course your kid is a generational talent (my kid is not)
Come U16 - he isn't going to magically make a AAA team because a bunch of kids get injuries or quit all together.


If your kid needs spring amd summer ho key to make it, he's not that good. My never played a single game of hockey after the winter season. I also never took him to AAA tryouts because I knew the coaches all put winning #1, and thought they were in Jr.A already. I didn't need thet aggravation for my family. My son played elite soccer, football and beach volleyball. He did some development in the spring, shot pucks on bis own time at home, and worked out in our home gym a ton.

Played U15AAA on his first try, then U16AAA and now Jr.A. He's an athlete and puts in all of the work on his own.

Those who need to specialize aren't good enough and will fizzle out.

Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:45 pm

Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:30 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 12:52 pm
Guest wrote: Wed Aug 28, 2024 4:36 pm the issue with spring/summer hockey is that it's too much and has ruined the game for kids who would like to play other sports, hang out at the beach or just take a break from hockey. It's hard to do any of those things AND keep up with the kids who did that in the fall...if you didnt. there needs to be a balance. I'm sure coaches/orgs love it because it's $$ plus maybe they get to recruit for their winter teams for when it actually matters.

Youth sports have become way too intense and i say this as someone who's kid has been suckered into spring/summer hockey.
Yeah, this is a fair comment, but unfortunately its never going to stop.

Its only going to get crazier and crazier.

My kid played a different sport in Spring and i've told this story before on this forum, but the quick version is he was usually top3 kid on the ice last fall. This early summer, when compared to the same kids, but they played spring and summer, he looks slow and not as skilled any more.

He has gone from top kid on the team to middle of the pack, really quickly. Will it level out through the fall? Probably. But it did make me rethink keeping him in another sport through the spring/summer next year. I still feel like multisport is the way to go, but, it sure as shit feels like we messed up.
You’re doing it right, play the long game. A lot of these other kids will burn out and have overuse injuries by age 14. Multi sports are the way to go, keep your kid on the ice weekly but don’t get caught up.
I don't disagree. But, lets put it this way.
The kids playing AAA hockey in U10 - U15 are going to be the kids who play year 'round - unless of course your kid is a generational talent (my kid is not)
Come U16 - he isn't going to magically make a AAA team because a bunch of kids get injuries or quit all together.

Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:42 pm

Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 12:44 pm
Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 10:45 am Minor hockey is all about about politics and it's at every level from AAA to House League. You have to learn how to play the game.

Kids are not always selected based on skill, it can be who their parents are, who they know, what sponsors they can bring in, etc.

However, those who complain loudly about their kid being cut are usually not telling the whole story.
Looks like you're complaining...ie, one of those parents hiding something
LOL nope - I was trying to respond to a previous post saying that certain organizations were like the mafia but it wouldn't let me quote their comment

Been through the tryout process twice now, my kid was not cut, but I wouldn't come on here an complain if he was. I know my kid's strengths and weaknesses and I'm not an over bearing a$$hole, so if he was cut, it's not as a parent cut.

Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Thu Aug 29, 2024 1:30 pm

Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 12:52 pm
Guest wrote: Wed Aug 28, 2024 4:36 pm the issue with spring/summer hockey is that it's too much and has ruined the game for kids who would like to play other sports, hang out at the beach or just take a break from hockey. It's hard to do any of those things AND keep up with the kids who did that in the fall...if you didnt. there needs to be a balance. I'm sure coaches/orgs love it because it's $$ plus maybe they get to recruit for their winter teams for when it actually matters.

Youth sports have become way too intense and i say this as someone who's kid has been suckered into spring/summer hockey.
Yeah, this is a fair comment, but unfortunately its never going to stop.

Its only going to get crazier and crazier.

My kid played a different sport in Spring and i've told this story before on this forum, but the quick version is he was usually top3 kid on the ice last fall. This early summer, when compared to the same kids, but they played spring and summer, he looks slow and not as skilled any more.

He has gone from top kid on the team to middle of the pack, really quickly. Will it level out through the fall? Probably. But it did make me rethink keeping him in another sport through the spring/summer next year. I still feel like multisport is the way to go, but, it sure as shit feels like we messed up.
You’re doing it right, play the long game. A lot of these other kids will burn out and have overuse injuries by age 14. Multi sports are the way to go, keep your kid on the ice weekly but don’t get caught up.

Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Thu Aug 29, 2024 12:52 pm

Guest wrote: Wed Aug 28, 2024 4:36 pm the issue with spring/summer hockey is that it's too much and has ruined the game for kids who would like to play other sports, hang out at the beach or just take a break from hockey. It's hard to do any of those things AND keep up with the kids who did that in the fall...if you didnt. there needs to be a balance. I'm sure coaches/orgs love it because it's $$ plus maybe they get to recruit for their winter teams for when it actually matters.

Youth sports have become way too intense and i say this as someone who's kid has been suckered into spring/summer hockey.
Yeah, this is a fair comment, but unfortunately its never going to stop.

Its only going to get crazier and crazier.

My kid played a different sport in Spring and i've told this story before on this forum, but the quick version is he was usually top3 kid on the ice last fall. This early summer, when compared to the same kids, but they played spring and summer, he looks slow and not as skilled any more.

He has gone from top kid on the team to middle of the pack, really quickly. Will it level out through the fall? Probably. But it did make me rethink keeping him in another sport through the spring/summer next year. I still feel like multisport is the way to go, but, it sure as shit feels like we messed up.

Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Thu Aug 29, 2024 12:44 pm

Guest wrote: Thu Aug 29, 2024 10:45 am Minor hockey is all about about politics and it's at every level from AAA to House League. You have to learn how to play the game.

Kids are not always selected based on skill, it can be who their parents are, who they know, what sponsors they can bring in, etc.

However, those who complain loudly about their kid being cut are usually not telling the whole story.
Looks like you're complaining...ie, one of those parents hiding something

Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Thu Aug 29, 2024 10:45 am

Minor hockey is all about about politics and it's at every level from AAA to House League. You have to learn how to play the game.

Kids are not always selected based on skill, it can be who their parents are, who they know, what sponsors they can bring in, etc.

However, those who complain loudly about their kid being cut are usually not telling the whole story.

Re: Coaches leaving game in droves

by Guest » Wed Aug 28, 2024 7:53 pm

Guest wrote: Wed Aug 28, 2024 4:36 pm the issue with spring/summer hockey is that it's too much and has ruined the game for kids who would like to play other sports, hang out at the beach or just take a break from hockey. It's hard to do any of those things AND keep up with the kids who did that in the fall...if you didnt. there needs to be a balance. I'm sure coaches/orgs love it because it's $$ plus maybe they get to recruit for their winter teams for when it actually matters.

Youth sports have become way too intense and i say this as someone who's kid has been suckered into spring/summer hockey.
What about playing spring and summer hockey, and play another sport in the winter. Basketball, volleyball, train for track indoors, swim, whatever. Who's limiting hockey to the old school season? The old school method is well, old. It's outdated and full of archaic coaches and administrators.

Competition for athletes to play your sport is good. Hockey is losing ground. If not for the rise in female hockey the numbers would be way down.

Hockey in Ontario specifically, no matter the season has a built in advantage over other areas...proximity of talent in a relatively small geographic area. This concentration of talent drops the need for significant travel. Exploit that, it's one of our biggest strengths.

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